Are You Experienced?

I like working with people who are smart, funny and don't come to the same conclusions I do.  I interviewed a guy a few years ago, we were so hopelessly in synch, we finished each other's sentences.  Creepy.  I passed on him, took somebody more junior.  Smart, liked her energy.  Fresh.  I know what I think, I didn't need an echo.

Of course, I want the people who disagree with me to bring their 'A' game.  Challenge me.  Keep me on my toes.  Here are some arguments that are weak:

• I have a lot of experience.  Yes, sure.  So do I.  And as time continues it's inevitable march, it's a pretty safe bet I have more experience than you do.  A lot more.  So if "experience" is an actual argument, odds are I just flat out win.  Do better - what was the experience?  What did you learn?  Tell me what you know.

• We did this at my last place and it didn't work.  Seriously?  Maybe it was a good idea and you just did it wrong.  Think about why it failed and ask if the same conditions apply here and talk about that.

• Our boss agrees with me.  Granted, that does improve your odds of winning!  But it doesn't actually make your point of view correct.  Playing the boss card or waving your title around may carry the day but winning isn't the point, being right is.

Disagree, but don't be dumb about it.